Not many are gifted with the sexual expertise. Not many people know just exactly how to seduce their partner or how to find those hotspots while in bed. There are others that have no inhibitions when they make love, this result to an ultimate night together with their partner. While most and this is mostly true with women has a lot to learn in the art of making love. And talking dirty is one of the most basic things that you need to learn.
List Everything Down
If you are a person that really don’t use dirty words in your daily conversation, try to talk dirty in bed will sound so unnatural and even down right awkward. And this is not your point of using these words during sex. You want to encourage your partner and make him feel sexy every time you make love. So to start with you can try to list down all possible dirty words that you might need or use when you spend the night together. Make sure that you have a long list of words so that you will know just exactly what to say when the situation calls for it.
Practice Until it Becomes Normal
Once you have completed your list you can try and practice it. You can do it in front of a mirror so that you can see if you are being awkward again and you can also try to correct your actions. You can do it discreetly by practicing while you are taking a bath or during your alone time at home. You don’t need to let your partner know what you are doing. Plus it will be a huge surprise for him if you get better in talking dirty.
After you have mastered the art of talking dirty you can start trying out a different thing like discovering some specific position that would satisfy your partner more. These little surprises for your partner will surely be well remembered by him especially if you got successful the first time you try it out. You can also try and discuss it with your partner to know what he wants you to do. Being willing to work on your weakness in bed will surely be the first step in making sure you both will enjoy your night together. Plus it is also a good way of making your relationship last. Having meaningful sex to the one you love will surely be more special than anything else. And if you continue to surprise him with all your effort in learning new things in bed will surely be rewarded greatly as well.
If you can talk openly with your partner and if you both try to learn together to have a great sex life it would mean that you are developing as a couple and that you have now formed a deeper understanding of one another. There are other things that you can also consider in doing and you can easily gather enough information online or on other sources as well.